Have you ever wondered which way is right? Whenever confronted with two or more options, do you know which option to choose?
It is very common for most to question what to do in any given situation. Should we follow our feelings? Should we seek other's opinions? Should we research or Google for answers? Or do we pray and hope for the best? What exactly is the right way to figure out what's right?
Most of us are confronted with concerns often. Whether dealing with relationships, finances, health, or even ourselves. When we consider how often we must make right decisions, it's no wonder we can often make wrong ones.
In order to determine the right way in any given situation, we need to begin by identifying the desired result. To have happy relationships, the right thing to do is what most would consider wrong. That is, to provide for the other's needs above and beyond our own. Sound difficult, or even impossible? That may be why so many struggle with doing what's right, because we're often compelled to do what's wrong. Taking care of our own needs seems right, but can be selfish; taking care of another's needs seems considerate, but is necessary. If each vows to care for the other, our own needs will be met; consequently, the relationship will strengthen.
Our finances can be a challenge. If we follow our feelings we can often overspend. If we don't have a clear goal, we can often miss the mark. If we want our finances to be in order, we need to establish a goal so we can meet it. Then we need to do what's right and stick to the plan, even when we don't feel like it. Our health follows the same pattern.
So what about day-to-day decisions? When someone makes us angry, should we retaliate? If someone is hurtful, should we remark? If we've been treated unfairly, should we speak up? There is a way to handle each circumstance in a right way. The answer is this: Respond out of love, with no hurtful intent. The only way to disengage a negative situation is to consider the source, consider the situation, and consider the reason. Remembering, if the offense comes from a loved one, chances are they are justified; simply consider your portion of blame, apologize, and do better next time. Yet, if the offense arises from a stranger, refrain from rude comments, instead be kind back - after all, yours may be the only smile they receive all day. Many find this difficult to do because they fear judgment, or degradation. Truth is, if our intention is right, our outcome will usually be also.
Doing what's right isn't hard to understand, although it may be difficult to do. But as with anything worthwhile, practice makes perfect!
It is very common for most to question what to do in any given situation. Should we follow our feelings? Should we seek other's opinions? Should we research or Google for answers? Or do we pray and hope for the best? What exactly is the right way to figure out what's right?
Most of us are confronted with concerns often. Whether dealing with relationships, finances, health, or even ourselves. When we consider how often we must make right decisions, it's no wonder we can often make wrong ones.
In order to determine the right way in any given situation, we need to begin by identifying the desired result. To have happy relationships, the right thing to do is what most would consider wrong. That is, to provide for the other's needs above and beyond our own. Sound difficult, or even impossible? That may be why so many struggle with doing what's right, because we're often compelled to do what's wrong. Taking care of our own needs seems right, but can be selfish; taking care of another's needs seems considerate, but is necessary. If each vows to care for the other, our own needs will be met; consequently, the relationship will strengthen.
Our finances can be a challenge. If we follow our feelings we can often overspend. If we don't have a clear goal, we can often miss the mark. If we want our finances to be in order, we need to establish a goal so we can meet it. Then we need to do what's right and stick to the plan, even when we don't feel like it. Our health follows the same pattern.
So what about day-to-day decisions? When someone makes us angry, should we retaliate? If someone is hurtful, should we remark? If we've been treated unfairly, should we speak up? There is a way to handle each circumstance in a right way. The answer is this: Respond out of love, with no hurtful intent. The only way to disengage a negative situation is to consider the source, consider the situation, and consider the reason. Remembering, if the offense comes from a loved one, chances are they are justified; simply consider your portion of blame, apologize, and do better next time. Yet, if the offense arises from a stranger, refrain from rude comments, instead be kind back - after all, yours may be the only smile they receive all day. Many find this difficult to do because they fear judgment, or degradation. Truth is, if our intention is right, our outcome will usually be also.
Doing what's right isn't hard to understand, although it may be difficult to do. But as with anything worthwhile, practice makes perfect!
Sylvie Hache is an entrepreneur and author who has lived both the gay and straight lifestyles, and shares her insights on why she went from straight to gay to straight. He story has impact and answers many questions without being preachy or judgmental. www.sylviehache.com.
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